How to Meet Women in Vegas
I’m going into detail about this because it’s my most popular question. If you’re looking for strategies and tactics on how to get laid, this is NOT the article for you. This will help women be more receptive to you, and should make much more enjoyable encounters for them as well as you.
Dress Nice
By day, try to wear a button up shirt or a polo. At night, to wear a suit or a blazer. Even if it’s hot! If you don’t have a suit, buy a suit. Women in Vegas dress to kill!!!!!! It’s almost like a courtesy.
The amount of pain and money they put in to look good, it’s the least you can do.
Trust me, they will respect it. Guys who try to dress like Justin Bieber, it only works for Justin Bieber, I assure you.
Be yourself & Tell The Truth
I can’t stress how important this is. From the perspective of a female visiting Vegas, it’s refreshing to listen to people tell the truth whether they like what you have to say or not. Women have an intuition to spot liars to begin with, but, after being in Vegas for just a few hours, their intuition grows even stronger. Don’t pretend to be someone you’re not. They will read right through you. Also, don’t tell women you like something when you don’t, or don’t like something when you do.
Don’t make up lies about what you do for work.
I know this goes hand-in-hand with telling the truth, but I still want to reiterate this. I’ve seen countless men try to tell some giant story about what they do for work, what their family business is, what invention they’ve created when they don’t even know what an LLC or a patent is. Don’t be that guy. Also, please, DON’T try to say you’re a musician or a rapper when you don’t have a single on iTunes. I don’t even know if this works outside of Vegas, but if she’s going to talk to you to begin with, she’s going to talk to you before you tell them that.
Try to avoid work topics
If you get on the subject of work, and want to avoid what you do for work, simply say, “I don’t come on vacation to talk about work. Lets grab a drink.” Then find another topic to discuss.
Take a quick geography lesson, know some history, and know something about the world.
Women are intelligent! They’re getting degrees in much higher rates than men, and you’re going to be in a melting pot of successful and intelligent women from literally all over your world. Don’t pretend to know something you don’t.
To give you some examples:
- For USA, know your own geography. Know that Kansas City is in Missouri, not Kansas, know more about Idaho than they’re known for potatoes, and there are more places in New York than just the city!
- If you meet someone from Canada, know that they have provinces and territories, not states. They use Celsius, not Fahrenheit. Also, know that their capital is Ottawa, not Vancouver or Toronto. DO NOT SAY, “oh you’re so much better than America, you’ve got free healthcare!” They’re likely going to say, “Have you been to Canada? It’s freezing, and there’s nothing to do.” Also, their healthcare isn’t free there, they pay crazy taxes.
- If they are from Europe, Africa, Asia, be sure you know those are continents, not countries.
These are a few of the countless examples of things you should know. Obviously you won’t know everything about the world, but try to know some basics. If you don’t know a lot or know anything about where someone is from, ask questions and listen. Women like men who listen. You’ll likely learn something and gain multiple perspectives.
Be A Gentleman
If you don’t know how to be a gentleman, watch a James Bond Film. Preferably with Sean Connery. If that’s too much for you, open doors, ladies first, and be mindful of stairs when girls are wearing heels.
If you’re planning on going to clubs, try to meet women before the clubs to enter with you.
The likelihood of meeting someone in a club is extremely rare, and once you’re there, it’s hard to carry on a conversation. If you know someone beforehand it’s much easier.
If you know someone beforehand it’s much easier. Should you be in a situation where you are in a club looking to meet women, try to stay close to a bar or have a table, and a fairly decent one at that.
Meeting women on the dance floor is going to be tough. And if you’ve got the expertise to do that, then you probably don’t need this article.
Don’t make getting laid a priority...
Seriously, that’s a terrible goal. Concentrate on making memories and enjoying time spent with your friends. If anything is going to happen, let it happen organically. Don’t push too hard.
DON’T HESITATE
If you see someone you want to approach, do it. If you hesitate, you’ll likely make excuses for why you can’t approach women, and the excuses will never stop. If you need to drink alcohol because you’re nervous, go for it. Just don’t get too intoxicated.
DON’T GRAB GIRLS BY THE ARM WHILE WALKING PAST THEM
I literally see this happen all the time….. Who ever is telling people that is a move to make, or if there is a book people are reading that tells you to do that, burn it.
DON’T GRAB GIRLS FROM BEHIND
I’ll just leave that as is.
DON’T YELL OBSCENITIES AT WOMEN
If you’re doing things like this, you’re a moron.
RESPECT THE BACHELORETTE PARTY’S PLANS
In Vegas there is no shortage of large bachelorette groups. Ranging anywhere from 3-25 girls. Be empathetic. These women have organized these vacations way in advance in a very hectic city, for a very special occasion. Most have had to finalized all of their plans way in advance. If you even THINK of trying to change their plans, you had better be ready to deliver.
AND FINALLY THE BIGGEST SECRET OF ALL, FOOD
Take women out to eat. Dinners, brunches, and late night outings will make you very popular I assure you.
If you touch on all these points, you’ll enjoy yourself and meet plenty of women. Have fun and best of luck.
